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How to raise an adult: break free of the overparenting trap and prepare your kid for success
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New York : St. Martin's Griffin, 2016.
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Book
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First St. Martin's Griffin edition.
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x, 354 pages : illustrations ; 21 cm
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Exposes the detrimental effects of helicopter parenting and puts forth an alternative philosophy for raising self- sufficient young adults. Across a decade as Stanford University's Dean of Freshmen, Lythcott-Haims noticed a startling rise in parental involvement in students' lives. Every year, more parents were exerting control over students' academic work, extracurriculars, and career choices, often taking matters into their own hands rather than risk their child's failure or disappointment. Meanwhile, Lythcott-Haims encountered increasing numbers of students who, as a result of hyper-attentive parenting, lacked a strong sense of self and were poorly equipped to handle the demands of adult life.

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HQ755.8 .L97 2016
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Oct 19, 2022
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Language:
English
ISBN:
9781250093639, 1250093635

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Includes discussion questions.
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Includes bibliographical references (pages 311-339) and index.
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Exposes the detrimental effects of helicopter parenting and puts forth an alternative philosophy for raising self- sufficient young adults. Across a decade as Stanford University's Dean of Freshmen, Lythcott-Haims noticed a startling rise in parental involvement in students' lives. Every year, more parents were exerting control over students' academic work, extracurriculars, and career choices, often taking matters into their own hands rather than risk their child's failure or disappointment. Meanwhile, Lythcott-Haims encountered increasing numbers of students who, as a result of hyper-attentive parenting, lacked a strong sense of self and were poorly equipped to handle the demands of adult life.
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APA Citation (style guide)

Lythcott-Haims, J. (2016). How to raise an adult: break free of the overparenting trap and prepare your kid for success. First St. Martin's Griffin edition. New York, St. Martin's Griffin.

Chicago / Turabian - Author Date Citation (style guide)

Lythcott-Haims, Julie. 2016. How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success. New York, St. Martin's Griffin.

Chicago / Turabian - Humanities Citation (style guide)

Lythcott-Haims, Julie, How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success. New York, St. Martin's Griffin, 2016.

MLA Citation (style guide)

Lythcott-Haims, Julie. How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success. First St. Martin's Griffin edition. New York, St. Martin's Griffin, 2016.

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